There is something quietly powerful about watching a creature wait without confusion. Milo sits by the door, not because anyone has explained the schedule to him, and not because he has been given proof. He simply knows. Somewhere beneath the noise of thought, beneath the need for evidence, something in him senses that Julie is on her way home.
That small moment holds more than it first appears to. At the surface, it is just a cat waiting by a door. But if we stay with it a little longer, it becomes a reflection on trust, timing, belonging, and the difference between waiting from fear and waiting from a place of quiet inner knowing.
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The Wait
Received : 2024 July 8 – Beaufort, North Carolina
Milo is not performing patience. He is simply inhabiting it. He is waiting, but he is not empty. He is alert, present, and connected to something he trusts.
It is the place where many of us become restless. We want proof before peace. We want certainty before we allow ourselves to simply be.
Milo is waiting by the door for his number one human. He knows when she is on her way, as if some invisible thread of recognition begins moving through him long before the key turns in the lock. There is no announcement, no visible evidence, no rational explanation that needs to be defended. He simply senses what is coming and takes his place near the door.
There is something quietly profound about that kind of waiting. He is not pacing the room demanding proof. He is not trying to force the door open before it is time. He is not making the absence mean abandonment. He is waiting with a kind of soft readiness, trusting the relationship enough to remain present until the moment arrives.
Maybe that is its own kind of Zen. Not the polished kind that sounds impressive when spoken about, but the ordinary kind that lives in the body before the mind turns it into a concept. Milo waits because he belongs. He waits because something in him knows that the one he loves is returning. In that knowing, the waiting does not seem like lack. It seems like connection.
There are moments in our own lives when we are asked to wait in a similar way. We wait for clarity, for the next step, for a door to open, for a person to return, for an answer to become visible. Sometimes we are waiting on life itself to show us what we cannot yet see. And in those spaces, waiting has a way of revealing what we actually trust.
Not all waiting is rooted in wisdom.
Some waiting is avoidance. Some waiting is fear dressed up as patience. Some waiting is the refusal to act because we are afraid of being responsible for what happens next. There is a kind of waiting that keeps us small, stuck, and dependent on something outside of us to give permission.
But there is another kind of waiting that is not passive at all. It is a waiting that stays awake. It listens. It remains available without becoming desperate. It does not confuse stillness with helplessness. It does not need to control the timing in order to trust that something is moving beneath the surface.
That is the difference between anxious waiting and rooted waiting. Anxious waiting says, “I am incomplete until this arrives.” Rooted waiting says, “I can be here fully while life continues to move.” One drains us because it makes the present moment feel like a problem to escape. The other deepens us because it teaches us how to remain with ourselves even when the outcome is not yet visible.
Milo does not control the arrival. He does not make the car turn down the street or the key enter the lock. His power is not in forcing the moment to happen. His power is in the way he waits: present, alert, trusting, and unashamed of his belonging.
Maybe that is the real invitation inside the image. Not to wait forever. Not to ignore reality. Not to call longing spiritual when it is really fear. The invitation is to notice the quality of our waiting. Are we waiting in a way that makes us disappear from our own life, or are we waiting in a way that keeps us honest, open, and present?
There is a kind of faith that is not loud. It does not need to announce itself or prove itself to anyone. It simply stays near the door, listening for what it already knows is on the way. And perhaps, in our own way, we are all learning how to wait without turning the waiting into evidence that we have been forgotten.
Where in your life are you waiting from fear, and where are you waiting from trust?
Your attention is not free. Every time you give it away, something is being shaped in you. Not all at once. Not loudly. But slowly, through repetition.
What you watch. What you feed. What you return to. What you let interrupt your inner life. These things do not simply pass through you and disappear. They leave an imprint. They train your nervous system. They shape what feels urgent, what feels desirable, what feels normal, and what feels worth caring about.
Eventually, your attention becomes your direction.
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Running After
Received : 2005 February 2 – Spokane, Washington.
What has been taking too much of you?
Attention Is Where Your Life Is Being Spent
We usually talk about attention like it is a productivity issue. We say we need to focus more, scroll less, manage our time better, or stop getting distracted. There is truth in that, but it does not go deep enough.
Attention is not only about getting more done. Attention is about what is slowly becoming your life.
Where your attention goes, your energy follows. Where your energy goes, your habits form. Where your habits form, your life begins to take shape. This is why attention matters. Not because you need to become some perfectly disciplined person who never wastes a minute, but because your attention is one of the main ways you participate in your own becoming.
If you give the best of your mind to noise long enough, noise starts to feel normal. If you give your attention to comparison long enough, your own life starts to feel insufficient. If you keep feeding urgency, outrage, distraction, and stimulation, it becomes harder to hear the quieter things inside you that actually matter.
What you feed becomes louder.
The Pull of Brain Candy
And I get it. Sometimes we just want some brain candy. We want to watch a few shorts, scroll Facebook for a minute, play a game, check out, laugh at something, or let our mind go somewhere that does not ask much from us.
There is nothing wrong with needing rest. There is nothing wrong with entertainment. There is nothing wrong with enjoying something that gives the mind a break.
The problem is when a break quietly becomes a pattern, and the pattern quietly becomes a direction.
I have seen this in myself. I would watch a short or see something online and think, I am just going to look into this for a minute. Then one thing would lead to another. A video would lead to a search. A search would lead to another clip. A comment would lead to another thought. Before I knew it, an hour or more was gone.
It did not feel dramatic while it was happening. That is part of the danger. It never announced itself as a theft. It just took a little bit, then a little more, then a little more after that.
The same thing can happen with video games. I enjoy them. I am not going to pretend I do not. But there is a moment, especially with games that show you how many total hours you have played, where it starts to hit differently. You look at the number and realize that this was not just downtime. This was a piece of your life.
And then the harder question shows up: what could I have built with that same time?
The Cost Is Not Only Time
It is easy to say the cost of distraction is time, but that is only part of it. The deeper cost is energy. Direction. Inner momentum. The slow weakening of your ability to stay with something that matters.
An hour here and there may not seem like much. But attention compounds. So does avoidance. So does creation.
The time spent scrolling could have become a skill. The time spent drifting could have become a piece of writing, a photograph, a model, a project, a stronger body, a clearer mind, a better relationship with your own life. Not because every moment has to be productive, but because a life cannot be built from leftovers alone.
We all need downtime. We all need rest. We all need moments where nothing is being produced, measured, improved, or optimized. But there is a difference between rest that restores you and distraction that drains you while pretending to comfort you.
Rest gives something back.
Distraction usually asks for more.
What Owns Your Attention Owns Your Direction
This is why attention is an inner authority issue. If something can continually pull your attention, it can slowly shape your direction without your permission.
It can tell you what to care about. It can tell you what to fear. It can tell you what to compare yourself to. It can tell you what is urgent, what is desirable, what is missing, and what kind of life you should be chasing.
And if you are not paying attention to what is shaping you, you may mistake that influence for your own thoughts.
That is where the real danger is. Not the phone. Not the game. Not the app. Not the entertainment itself. The danger is unconscious surrender. The danger is giving your inner life away in small pieces and never stopping long enough to ask where it all went.
Your attention is your life, spent moment by moment.
That does not mean you need to live rigidly. It means you need to live awake.
Building Something of Your Own
At some point, we have to ask a better question than, “Is this bad?”
A better question is, “What is this building in me?”
That question changes everything. It moves the conversation away from guilt and toward responsibility. It stops making attention about rules and starts making it about direction.
What would happen if some of that energy went toward building something of your own? Not necessarily a business. Not necessarily something impressive. Maybe a model. A garden. A skill. A piece of writing. A body of work. A practice. A craft. A habit that makes your life better in the end.
Creation does something different to a person than consumption does. When you create, you participate. You make contact with your own agency. You remember that your life is not only something happening to you. It is something you are helping shape.
That is why this matters for Self Guided Spirit. It is not just about using time better. It is about returning to the part of yourself that can still choose, still notice, still build, still become.
Reclaiming Attention Without Turning It Into Performance
The answer is not to become harsh with yourself. Shame does not create freedom. It usually creates another cycle to escape from.
The answer is awareness. Start noticing what gets the best of you. Notice what you reach for when you are tired, uncertain, lonely, bored, restless, or avoiding the next honest thing. Notice what leaves you clearer and what leaves you scattered. Notice what restores you and what only numbs you.
Then make one honest adjustment.
Not a dramatic vow. Not a new identity. Not a performance of discipline. Just one choice that says: my attention matters. My energy matters. My life matters.
Put the phone down for a while. Turn the game off before the night disappears. Make the thing. Write the page. Take the walk. Pick up the camera. Practice the skill. Sit in the quiet long enough to hear what has been buried under the noise.
You do not have to reclaim your whole life in one day. But you do have to stop pretending that what you give yourself to does not shape you.
The Quiet Return
Your attention is not free. It is being spent every day, whether you choose consciously or not.
The question is not whether you will give your attention away. You will. We all do. The question is whether you are giving it to things that help you become more awake, more honest, more alive, and more responsible for your own path.
Because what owns your attention eventually influences your life. And what you keep returning to becomes part of who you are becoming.
There comes a point when waiting for permission becomes a way of abandoning yourself.
You may call it patience. You may call it timing. You may call it being responsible.
And sometimes, it really is those things.
But sometimes, underneath all of that, there is a quieter truth:
You already know what you need to do. You are just waiting for someone else to make it safe.
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Along The Path Into The Fog
Received : 2017 June 16 – Carvers Gap, Appalachian Trail.
You are not fully stuck. You are not fully moving. You are standing in the space between knowing and choosing.
The Quiet Habit of Waiting
Most people do not announce that they are waiting for permission. They call it being practical. They call it doing more research. They call it needing a better plan. They call it waiting until things calm down, until they know more, until someone understands, until the timing feels right.
Sometimes that is wisdom. But sometimes it is fear dressed in responsible language. That is where we have to be honest with ourselves.
There is a kind of waiting that protects us. There is another kind that slowly teaches us to distrust our own life. It keeps us standing at the edge of what we already know, asking the world to give us a certainty it cannot give.
The Trap of Learning Instead of Moving
I saw this clearly in my own life when I had a photography business. I spent a lot of time studying marketing. A lot. I read every book I could get my hands on. Every theory. Every strategy. Every new approach that promised to make things clearer.
At first, it felt useful. It felt like preparation. It felt like I was doing the work. But after a while, I had to admit something uncomfortable: I was spending so much time learning that I was not actually doing much.
The learning had become a trap. Every new thing I signed up for gave me the feeling of movement without requiring the risk of action. One more book. One more course. One more strategy. One more idea before I really started.
But you do not really start learning until you start doing. At some point, I had to say: enough. Not because learning was bad. Learning was useful. It helped. It gave me language and tools. But it could not do the work for me.
Once I started taking action, things began to fall into place in a different way. Not perfectly. Not all at once. But the path became clearer because I was actually walking it.
That is something I see again and again. People are not always avoiding the work because they are lazy. Many times, they are working very hard at everything except the thing itself. They are preparing, researching, planning, and waiting until they feel ready. But readiness is not always something you find before you begin. Sometimes readiness is built by beginning.
Permission Can Become a Hidden Cage
The strange thing about permission is that it does not always come from another person directly. No one has to stand in front of you and say no. Sometimes you carry the no inside yourself.
You imagine what people will think. You imagine being misunderstood. You imagine failing in public. You imagine choosing wrong. So you wait. You keep gathering evidence. You keep looking for certainty. You keep hoping something outside of you will remove the risk.
But life does not usually work that way. There are some doors that do not open until you move toward them. There are some answers that do not appear until you are already in motion. There are some parts of yourself you cannot meet through theory. You meet them through action.
The Difference Between Wisdom and Fear
This does not mean every delay is avoidance. Sometimes waiting is wise. Sometimes more information is needed. Sometimes the body, the mind, or the moment is saying not yet for a good reason.
The question is not whether you are waiting. The question is what kind of waiting it is. Is it rooted in awareness, or is it rooted in fear? Is the pause helping you see more clearly, or is it helping you avoid the discomfort of choosing?
That distinction matters because awareness has a different feeling than avoidance. Awareness may be quiet, but it is honest. Avoidance usually needs noise. It needs more excuses. More tabs open. More opinions. More reasons to keep circling the same decision without stepping into it.
Inner Authority Begins With One Honest Choice
You do not reclaim your life all at once. You begin with one honest choice. One place where you stop asking for permission you do not actually need. One place where you admit that more information is not the missing piece. One place where you stop confusing preparation with participation.
That choice may be small: sending the message, publishing the post, starting the project, taking the photograph, making the offer, saying what you actually mean, or letting yourself be seen before you feel completely ready.
These are not small things when they break an old pattern. Sometimes the next step is not dramatic. It is simply the moment you stop waiting for life to become risk-free before you participate in it.
No One Else Can Live It for You
There is nothing wrong with learning from others. There is nothing wrong with guidance, teachers, books, systems, or advice. But at some point, your life asks something of you that no one else can answer for you.
No book can walk the path for you. No teacher can remove the risk of choosing. No strategy can replace direct experience. No outside approval can become inner authority.
You have to live your way into clarity. You have to let action teach you what theory cannot. You have to stop waiting for permission from people who are not responsible for the life you are here to live.
Freedom begins there. Not with certainty. Not with applause. Not with the perfect plan. With the willingness to take the next honest step.
This is not medical advice. This is my personal experience. If you are thinking about harming yourself, feel unsafe, or feel like you cannot make it through, please reach out for help now. Call emergency services, contact a crisis line, or talk to someone you trust. Do not try to carry that alone.
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Translation : “When you are observant, the whole world is your guide.”
Received : 2026 February – Mexico.
When It Starts
I am sure I am not the only one who goes through this. It is something I have struggled with for as long as I can remember.
It usually starts to show up when I think I am at my peak. When I am getting things done. When I am pushing forward. When I think I am gaining ground. Then it starts.
Call it what you want. Depression. Anxiety. Burnout. Some kind of crash. For me, it comes with severe body pain. Not just sadness. Not just being tired. Real pain. The kind that makes me want to sit in a corner and cry.
It creeps in slowly. At first, it is dull. A general glum feeling. A sadness in the background. Then it gets heavier. My body starts to feel weighted down. Moving through the day feels like walking through mud.
Fighting Through Mud
But I fight it. That is always my first move.
Grit, right? Keep going. Do not stop. Push harder. Finish the thing. Get through the day. Do what needs to be done. So I keep forcing myself forward.
Then I start to drain out. There is no joy in the world. I stop caring. Not in some dramatic movie-scene way. More like everything inside me has gone offline.
Then the pain comes. It starts in my hands. A dull ache. Then it moves up. Before long, my whole body feels like someone beat me with a baseball bat. And I just want to cry.
The motivation to fight is gone. I do not care anymore. Nothing seems to matter.
Trapped Inside Myself
When I think about that state, I think of the song “One” by Metallica. Yes, I enjoy some heavy metal once in a while. But there is a part of that song that hits close to this feeling.
Darkness, imprisoning me
All that I see, absolute horror
I cannot live, I cannot die
Trapped in myself, body my holding cell
That is what it feels like. Trapped. Walking around disconnected. Everything feels hollow. Shallow. Pointless. And there I remain in this in-between state for however long it decides to stay. Days. Weeks. Sometimes months.
And people ask, “How are you?” My answer is usually, “I’m fine.” Because what else am I going to say?
I know people want to help. I know some of them care. But when I am in that place, they cannot reach it. Their words cannot touch it. Their advice usually does not help.
Take a walk. Think positive. Rest more. Relax. Get out of your head.
Useless.
Not because they mean harm. They usually mean well. But when you are in it, those words bounce off the wall. I usually just want to be left alone.
The Pattern I Started to Notice
Over the years, I noticed a pattern. The more I resisted it, the longer it stayed. The more I fought it, the more it dug in.
Eventually, it would release. I would come back to life. I would feel present again. Engaged again. Like myself again. But it always felt like I survived it. Not understood it.
Through my shamanic practices, especially journeys, I started to notice something. I would encounter things that were frightening. Dark. Strange. Things that made me want to run. But running never worked.
So I learned to face them. Sometimes I even ran toward them.
That was something I also learned through psychedelic experiences. If you run, it follows. If you stand your ground, it blocks you. If you fight it, the fight becomes the trap.
At some point, the only way through is to let it take you. That sounds scary. It is scary. But I do not mean that in a life-or-death way. I am not talking about ending things. I am talking about the inner choice.
Go through. Or stay stuck.
Those are the options.
The first few times I tried this, it did not go well. I was not ready for the darkness that came in. It felt like being submerged in black water. Heavy. Suffocating. Like I was drowning.
The Temazcal in Mexico
Then Mexico happened.
In February, I went on a trip to Mexico. During the trip, I had the chance to take part in a **Temazcal**.
If you are not familiar with it, a Temazcal is an ancient Mexican sweat lodge ceremony rooted in Mesoamerican traditions. It is used for purification, physically and spiritually. You sit inside a small, dark, dome-shaped structure while hot volcanic stones are brought in. Water, often mixed with herbs, is poured over the stones to create steam.
Sounds nice, right? That is what I thought.
I had faced things before. I figured this would be easy. In a way, I am glad I thought that. I went in without fear.
I sat with my back against the cold wall as the others came in. The shaman entered and gave his message. A lot of it was good, but one thing stuck with me.
He said we could leave at any time. He said there is already so much suffering in the world. There is no need to force ourselves into suffering we are not ready for.
The Heat and the Panic
Then the rocks came in. Shovelful after shovelful of hot volcanic stones were placed in the center. I could feel the heat coming off them. More rocks. More heat. Then he closed the entrance.
Darkness. Only a faint glow from the stones.
He talked about how we came here. About our mother and father spirits. About how we chose them for whatever reason. About how, because of them, we are here. Then he asked us to go around and say our name, along with the names of our mother and father.
Each person spoke. Each time, he poured water on the hot stones, and the room filled with steam. Then it was my turn. I said my name. I said my mother’s name. I said my father’s name.
As soon as I finished, he poured water on the rocks. And I felt it drop from the top of the room.
Steam. Thick. Hot. Suffocating.
It felt like a wet blanket being pressed over my mouth and nose. My first reaction was panic.
I do not like cramped spaces. I do not like being hot. I really do not like feeling like I cannot breathe. It was almost all I could do to sit there.
I knew where the exit was. I knew I could leave. I could get up and shoot out of there like a rocket. That choice was there.
But I stayed.
Just Breathe
Breathe.
That was it. Just breathe. In through the nose. Out through the mouth. That is all I had to do.
With a gasp, I pulled the warm steam into my nose. I felt it move down the back of my throat and into my lungs. I could smell the herbs on the stones. I held it. Then I let it out. In again. Out again. In. Out.
I sat there in total darkness. Cramped. Hot. Covered in steam. Sweat starting to run down my skin.
Just breathe. Nothing else was expected of me. Just breathe.
And somehow, in the middle of all that discomfort, I started to notice the small things. The smell of the herbs. The cold wall against my back. The sweat running down my body. The fact that my only job was to breathe.
The Sweet Smell of Life
The first hour passed fast. It felt like it had barely started before it was over.
The shaman opened the entrance to refresh the rocks. Light poured in. Cold air rushed over us. I could see the steam hanging in the room as the light hit it.
Then more rocks came in. The entrance closed again. Darkness again.
Another scoop of water hit the stones. Then another. Again, the steam descended from above. But this time, I did not fight it.
I let it cover me. I sat there. I breathed.
And the thought came to me: the sweet smell of life.
The second hour passed as quickly as the first. When it was over, I crawled out through the narrow passage of the Temazcal. The cold air hit my sweat-covered body.
And I thought: so this is a rebirth ceremony.
Inside had become warm. Familiar. Almost comfortable. Then I had to leave it. I had to enter the cold, bright world again.
Is that what birth feels like? Warmth. Darkness. Safety. Then boom. Cold air. Light. The shock of being here.
Maybe that is what spirit feels when it enters life. I do not know. But I carried that with me.
When the Darkness Returned
Then this last round came.
My old friend returned. It started the same way. Nothing mattered. Everything was heavy. Doing one simple thing took more effort than it should. Energy I did not have.
I kept forcing myself to go because things needed to be done. But I was not present anymore. I was just dragging myself forward, trying to reach a finish line I knew I would never actually reach.
Then came the reminders. All the things I needed to do. All the things I had not done. Tick tock.
Then the pain set in. Creeping. I could take aspirin to take the edge off, but by then my whole body was in pain. I just wanted to go to my corner and cry.
Doing Nothing on Purpose
This time, I decided not to fight it. I decided to let it run its course. Maybe even run toward it.
So I blocked off my afternoon with one goal.
Do nothing.
I took a shower. I laid down in bed.
As I laid there, I felt the pressure of everything coming at me at once. Anxiety started building. The room felt smaller. The darkness started moving in. Everything was caving in.
I closed my eyes and thought: either I make it through, or I do not. Maybe I will sleep.
Then I let go. I let go of everything I was trying to do. Everything I was trying to hold. Everything I was trying to force.
I surrendered.
And I went into the dark place.
Consumed by the Beast
It was not far. I could feel it creeping in. Suffocating. The room felt like it was closing in around me. But I did not fight.
I breathed.
Then there was nothing.
The beast had consumed me. I was inside it now.
The fear came. Fear of everything. It was fear of everything I could think of… But I stayed. Eyes closed. Not turning away. Not fighting.
Show me what you have.
I went deeper into it. At one point, I remember thinking: is this Mara?
Then nothing.
What came next felt like a dream. I was eaten by a creature. Swallowed alive. Whole. Then I was spit back out.
Then came storms. But I stood there and watched.
I did not try to control anything. I did not try to be anything. I did not try to do anything. I just let it happen.
At some point, in all that turmoil, I fell asleep.
Jocko the Taskmaster
I woke up because of Jocko, one of our cats.
Jocko is the taskmaster. He has a very strict dinner time. And bedtime. And guess what? It was dinner time.
He was headbutting me.
Purr. Purr. Purr.
Wake up, human.
Of course, he wanted food. But I do not know a better way to wake up than with a purring cat beside you, soft fur, and two big eyes looking at you like you have a job to do.
What Changed
When I got up, I felt better. Not perfect. But better.
The pain was no longer the kind that made me want to cry. I was not 100 percent. But I was close. Maybe 90 percent.
I felt like myself again. But also different.
I felt like I had faced something I cannot fully describe. Not by fighting it. Not by solving it. Not by thinking my way out of it. By letting it be there.
Maybe it used up its energy trying to do what it does. Maybe it got bored because I stopped playing along. Maybe it moved through because I stopped resisting it.
Who knows.
But I feel lighter. I feel liberated. And I am going to keep walking this path as I know not where it leads.
Then then other day I came across this a quote by Stephen King from his book “The Stand.”
“No one can tell what goes on in between the person you were and the person you become. No one can chart that blue and lonely section of hell. There are no maps of the change. You just come out the other side. Or you don’t.”
For some reason that resonated with me. You either make it to the other side, or you stay stuck.
Some days, the best thing we can do is stop trying to solve the whole future and simply return to the next honest step. Life can feel heavy when we measure ourselves against everything unfinished, but momentum rarely comes from pressure. It comes from one small, real action taken with steady attention. Not perfect. Not impressive. Just enough to remind us that we are still moving, still choosing, and still capable of shaping the direction of our life.
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Jocko Cat Doing His Cat Thing
Received : 2025 March 4 – Beaufort, North Carolina.
Some days do not arrive with fire.
You wake up, look at everything waiting for you, and instead of feeling inspired, you feel buried. The projects, the responsibilities, the unfinished ideas, the things you said you would do, the life you are trying to build — it can all start to feel like too much.
And when that happens, the mind often makes things worse.
It starts pulling you into the whole future at once.
Where is this going? Am I doing enough? Why am I not further along? What if I fail? What if I waste my time? What if I never get there?
Before you have even taken one step, you are carrying the weight of the entire mountain.
But most days are not solved by figuring out the whole mountain.
Most days are saved by taking one honest step.
Not the perfect step. Not the dramatic step. Not the step that proves everything will work out.
Just the next real thing.
That might mean cleaning the workbench. Sending the email. Writing the paragraph. Making the phone call. Walking outside. Opening the document. Finishing the small task you have been avoiding because it seems too small to matter.
But small things do matter.
They matter because momentum is built through movement, not through waiting until you feel ready. We often think motivation comes first and action follows. Sometimes it does. But more often, action comes first, and motivation catches up later.
You do one thing, and the fog shifts a little.
You do another thing, and you remember that you are not powerless.
You take one small step, and the day stops feeling like something happening to you. It becomes something you are participating in again.
There is a quiet dignity in steady effort. It does not need applause. It does not need to be impressive. It does not need to look like some grand transformation from the outside.
A foundation never looks exciting while it is being built.
It is dirt, forms, concrete, leveling, waiting, checking, adjusting. It looks slow. It looks plain. But without it, nothing strong can stand.
The same is true in life.
The days when you feel stuck, tired, uncertain, or uninspired may still be foundation days. They may not feel powerful, but they are not wasted if you keep showing up in some small, honest way.
The mistake is believing that a meaningful life should always feel meaningful while you are building it.
It will not.
Sometimes it will feel dull. Sometimes it will feel heavy. Sometimes it will feel like you are repeating the same small actions without any visible reward. But that is often how real things are made.
You are not required to conquer the day.
You are not required to become a new person by sunset.
You are not required to fix your whole life before you are allowed to feel proud of yourself.
Today can be simpler than that.
Choose one thing that matters.
Make it small enough that you can actually do it.
Then do it with your full attention.
That is the way forward when your energy is low. That is the way forward when the future feels too large. That is the way forward when you cannot find the spark but still know you cannot stay where you are.
Do the next honest thing.
Then let that be enough for now.
Because a life does not change only through massive leaps. More often, it changes through small acts of courage repeated on ordinary days.
We spend so much of life leaning forward, waiting for the next thing to arrive. The better job, the clearer path, the finished project, the healed version of ourselves, the moment when everything finally makes sense. Planning has its place, but when the future becomes the place we mentally live, it starts taking from the only life we actually have. The present becomes something we rush through instead of something we receive.
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Around The Bend
Received : 2005 August 4 – Uintia Wasatch Cache National Forest, Utah
The future can become a vampire.
It pulls your energy out of the present moment and feeds on your attention. It keeps you reaching, waiting, preparing, and chasing. It is like trying to catch the next train before the one you are standing in front of has even arrived.
Don’t get me wrong. The future has its place.
That is where plans live. That is where direction, preparation, and vision can be useful. But the future is not where life actually happens.
Too often, we miss what is right in front of us. And the strange thing is, what is in front of us now was once the future we were waiting for. We finally arrive, and instead of being here, we start planning the next thing.
The next goal. The next version of ourselves. The next breakthrough. The next train.
We tell ourselves, if only. When I get there. When this happens. When I finally become.
And while we are doing that, life is happening without our full attention.
We forget to stop. We forget to breathe. We forget to enjoy what is around us. We forget to actually be where we are.
Because some part of us still believes the future holds the key.
Maybe happiness is there. Maybe freedom is there. Maybe enlightenment is there. Maybe peace is waiting somewhere just ahead.
But life does not happen just ahead.
It happens here.
This moment is not a waiting room for something better. It is the only place you can touch life directly. The future may help you aim, but the present is where you live.
This moment is all we have.
And if we keep abandoning it for the next thing, we may spend our whole lives arriving somewhere we are never fully present enough to receive.
It is easy to look at the world and feel the weight of everything that is broken. We have so much knowledge, so much technology, so much capacity to care for one another — and yet so often, we seem to be led by fear, greed, distraction, and smallness.
But this is not only a reflection on what is wrong.
It is an invitation.
An invitation to stop feeding what drains us. To start building what gives life. To refuse to become hardened by the very world we want to change. And most of all, to find a circle of people who are awake, steady, and constructive — people who are ready to live differently, not just talk about it.
2025 : Newspaper Rock State Historical Monument, Utah.
We have the money.
We have the power.
We have the medical understanding, the scientific knowledge, the technology, the love, and the community needed to create something far more beautiful than the world we are living in.
Not perfect. Not flawless. Not some childish fantasy where suffering never exists and every problem disappears. But a world with far less cruelty. Far less hunger. Far less loneliness. Far less manufactured fear. Far less waste. Far less spiritual exhaustion.
We have enough.
That is what makes it hurt.
The tragedy is not that humanity lacks the tools. The tragedy is that we keep handing the tools to people who are too small to use them well.
Too small in vision.
Too small in courage.
Too small in compassion.
Too small in soul.
Again and again, we are led by people who do not seem to carry the depth of what leadership should mean. People who know how to gain power but not how to serve life. People who understand strategy but not wisdom. People who can win the room but cannot heal anything. People who are fluent in control, performance, and image, but empty when it comes to nobility.
And yet, I cannot place all the blame on them.
That would be too easy.
Because weak leadership does not rise in a vacuum. It rises when people are tired. When people are distracted. When people trade responsibility for comfort. When people give their power away because they would rather be entertained, protected, validated, or told what to think.
So I keep coming back to three questions.
Not because they solve everything overnight.
But because they bring the responsibility back home.
What Do I Stop Feeding
There are things in this world that only stay alive because we keep giving them our attention.
Outrage needs us.
Fear needs us.
Division needs us.
The machine needs us scrolling, reacting, arguing, buying, comparing, defending, and explaining ourselves until we are too drained to create anything meaningful.
So the first question is simple, but it cuts deep:
What do I stop feeding?
Maybe I stop feeding the endless noise that keeps me angry but inactive.
Maybe I stop feeding conversations with people who are not trying to understand, only trying to win.
Maybe I stop feeding the need to be seen by people who have already chosen not to see me clearly.
Maybe I stop feeding the belief that my life has to wait until the world becomes sane.
Maybe I stop feeding the small compromises that slowly turn me into someone I do not respect.
This is not about apathy.
This is not about looking away from suffering.
It is about refusing to let broken systems use my own life force against me.
There is a difference between paying attention and being consumed.
There is a difference between being informed and being spiritually hijacked.
There is a difference between caring deeply and being dragged into every fire until there is nothing left of you but smoke.
At some point, we have to stop feeding what makes us weaker.
Not because we do not care.
Because we care too much to be useless.
What Do I Start Building
This is where the energy changes.
Because it is easy to criticize what is broken. It is easy to point at corruption, ignorance, greed, and cowardice. It is easy to say the world is upside down.
But the harder question is this:
What am I building that proves another way is possible?
That question does not let me hide in opinion.
It asks something of me.
It asks for my hands. My discipline. My courage. My imagination. My willingness to create, even when the world feels heavy.
Maybe I start building a life that is harder to manipulate.
Maybe I start building a business that reflects my values instead of just extracting from people.
Maybe I start building tools that help others create.
Maybe I start building a home that feels steady and alive.
Maybe I start building a body and mind strong enough to carry what I say I believe.
Maybe I start building a public voice that does not just complain about the darkness, but gives people language for their own freedom.
Maybe I start building community.
Not the fake kind.
Not networking.
Not performance.
Not everyone nodding along while nothing changes.
I mean a real circle of people.
People who are awake, steady, and constructive.
People who can see what is broken without becoming broken by it.
People who can tell the truth without becoming cruel.
People who can hold grief without turning bitter.
People who can disagree without trying to destroy each other.
People who still believe in making things, growing things, repairing things, and becoming more whole.
That is the circle I am looking for.
Not a crowd.
A circle.
A circle has presence. A circle has attention. A circle has room for each person to bring something real.
A crowd reacts.
A circle remembers.
A crowd follows momentum.
A circle creates meaning.
A crowd can be manipulated.
A circle can become a living source of strength.
And maybe that is how a better world starts. Not with millions of people suddenly waking up at once, but with small circles of people choosing to live differently on purpose.
What Do I Refuse to Become
This may be the hardest question of all.
Because once you begin to see through things, there is a danger.
You can become bitter.
You can become arrogant.
You can start looking down on people who are still caught in the very patterns you were once caught in.
You can become addicted to being right.
You can become cold and call it clarity.
You can become passive and call it peace.
You can become cruel and call it truth.
That is the trap.
The world does not only break people by making them ignorant. Sometimes it breaks them by making them aware but hardened.
So I have to ask myself:
What do I refuse to become?
I refuse to become another voice that only tears down and never creates.
I refuse to become so angry at corruption that I lose my tenderness.
I refuse to become so disappointed in people that I stop seeing their humanity.
I refuse to become someone who uses truth as a weapon to feel superior.
I refuse to become numb just because feeling deeply is inconvenient.
I refuse to become the very thing I say I stand against.
Because if I criticize greed while living from fear, what have I really changed?
If I criticize control while trying to dominate others with my ideas, what have I really learned?
If I criticize shallow leadership while refusing to lead myself, what truth am I actually living?
This is where the real work begins.
Not out there.
Here.
In the inner life.
In the choices no one applauds.
In the discipline to stay human.
In the courage to keep creating.
In the refusal to let the sickness of the age reproduce itself inside my own heart.
The Invitation
I am not looking for perfect people.
Perfect people do not exist.
I am looking for people who are willing.
Willing to think for themselves.
Willing to take responsibility for their own energy.
Willing to stop feeding what drains them.
Willing to build what gives life.
Willing to tell the truth without losing compassion.
Willing to become steady in a world that profits from keeping people unstable.
Willing to create instead of only complain.
Willing to stand in the tension between grief and hope without collapsing into either one.
That is the circle I want to be part of.
A circle of people who are awake, steady, and constructive.
Awake enough to see clearly.
Steady enough not to be pulled apart by every storm.
Constructive enough to build something useful with what they see.
Because the world does not need more noise.
It does not need more empty outrage.
It does not need more people performing awareness while doing nothing with it.
It needs people who can carry fire without burning everything down.
It needs people who can grieve and still build.
It needs people who can see the depth of the problem and still choose to become part of the answer.
Even the hardest things eventually soften. What once seemed frozen and immovable begins to bend, release, and flow again. Life is always moving toward motion, toward change, toward the quiet courage of letting go.
Realizing I’m not here to fix anyone is profoundly freeing. Inspired by Sri Ramana Maharshi’s insight, I’ve learned the value of shining my own light without correcting or convincing others. Amidst political noise and endless arguments, true power lies in grounding myself, choosing battles wisely, and confidently knowing who I am. The world needs fewer voices yelling and more steady, clear individuals simply living their truth.
Realizing I’m not here to fix anyone is profoundly freeing.
Sunflower – 2024 : California.
I saw this quote the other day, and it’s been sitting with me:
**The Sun is simply bright. It does not correct anyone. Because it shines, the whole world is full of light. Transforming yourself is a means of giving light to the whole world.**
~Sri Ramana Maharshi
There’s something freeing about realizing I’m not here to fix anyone. The Sun doesn’t go around trying to set anyone straight — it just shines. And because it shines, everything around it gets lit up. That’s it. No pushing, no convincing, no need to make anyone see things a certain way. It just *is*, and that’s enough.
That’s been hitting home for me lately, especially with all the political noise (noise, noise, noise) constantly blasting from every angle. Everyone’s trying to tell you what to think, what to feel, and which side you *better* be on. It’s exhausting. And I’ll be honest — there’s been plenty of times I felt like I *should* be out there trying to wake people up, calling out the nonsense, showing them how they’re being played. But where does that ever really get you? Drained. Frustrated. Wasting energy arguing with people who were never going to hear you anyway. All it does is lock them in deeper and pull me further away from what actually matters.
The way I see it now, the best way to make any real difference isn’t trying to change anyone else. It’s getting clear on who I am, what I actually stand for — not because someone told me to, but because I sat with it and figured it out for myself. It’s shutting off the noise long enough to hear my own thoughts again. When I do that — when I’m solid in my own footing — that naturally affects how I move through everything else. How I handle the chaos. How I hold my own truth without needing anyone else to sign off on it. How I decide where my time and energy go — and more importantly, where they don’t.
That doesn’t mean I just sit back and pretend none of this matters. It’s not about checking out. It’s about choosing my battles instead of being yanked around by every headline or outrage cycle. Being grounded doesn’t mean staying silent when something *needs* to be said. It just means I’m not reacting from anger or fear. I get to decide how I show up — whether it’s holding space for a tough conversation, standing firm when it would be easier to blend in, or just refusing to get caught up in the latest thing everyone’s supposed to be mad about this week.
There’s power in that. Not passivity — power. When I’m steady, I can see the bigger picture. I’m not getting hooked by every distraction designed to keep people chasing their tails. The system *wants* you mad, wants you glued to it, wants you feeling like you have to fight all the time. It wants you to see those on the so called other side as lesser. But stepping back doesn’t mean you don’t care — it means you see the game for what it is. And from there, when I do choose to speak up or take action, it comes from solid ground — not from whatever’s got everyone spinning today.
People pick up on that, even if they don’t know why. It’s not about trying to be anyone’s guide, or leading some movement. It’s just about holding my own line and letting that speak for itself. Some people notice and wonder why I’m not getting sucked into the latest drama — others couldn’t care less. Either way, it’s not my job to manage anyone else’s path. My job is to stand firm in who I am. If that helps someone else along the way, great. If not, that’s fine too.
Because at the end of the day, the world doesn’t need more people yelling. It needs more people who know who they are — standing steady, clear, and shining their light, whether anyone’s paying attention or not.
How to Find and Embrace Your Unique Path to Transformation and Freedom
Your path is waiting for you—right beneath your feet. It’s not about where you end up but how you embrace the experiences, lessons, and choices along the way. Nature and those around you offer guidance, and by truly listening to your heart, you’ll discover the deeper meaning and freedom that come from living authentically.
A winding sandy path meanders through golden coastal dunes, inviting you to explore the beauty of nature and the journey ahead.
The Path That Calls – 2024 : Fort Macon, North Carolina.
Each of us is on a journey, traveling a path that is uniquely our own. While our experiences and choices may differ, we are all seeking something similar at the core: a sense of meaning, connection, and fulfillment. It is not just the destination that defines us but the richness of the journey itself—the lessons we learn, the challenges we face, and the way we grow along the way.
Your path lies right beneath your feet, patiently waiting for you to take the first step. It calls for your attention, urging you to move forward with open eyes and ears, to observe, listen, and learn. Nature communicates its wisdom in every breeze, every sunrise, and every rustling leaf. The people you encounter—whether friends or adversaries—have something to teach you. By tuning into the quiet voice of your heart, you’ll find it guiding you toward your place and purpose in the universe.
To truly embark on this journey, you must first know what you truly want—not what others expect of you or what you think you should desire. This clarity is the foundation of your path. Without it, you risk wandering aimlessly, like a leader launching a campaign into unfamiliar territory without understanding their strengths or challenges. To succeed, you must align with your authentic desires and prepare yourself to embrace the unknown.
Walking your path is not just about personal fulfillment; it’s about celebrating life in its entirety. It’s an invitation to live in harmony with nature, to honor the beauty of each moment, and to embrace love as a guiding force. Every choice becomes an opportunity to live joyfully and to express your creative passions. This journey is not one to walk alone—it is enriched by sharing it with others, learning from their perspectives, and growing together.
If you are drawn to the ancient ways of the Celts, remember that their path is not one of ease or comfort. It is a rugged and challenging journey, filled with obstacles and lessons in resilience. This path teaches that the journey itself holds greater value than the destination. It reminds us that transformation, freedom, and wisdom are forged in the experiences we have along the way, not in the final arrival.
Your path, however it may appear, is uniquely yours. Embrace it fully, for it is through the twists, turns, and transformations that you truly come alive.
Our attention has become the most sought-after resource, constantly pulled in every direction by distractions, notifications, and endless scrolling. This constant tug-of-war leaves us feeling drained and disconnected from what truly matters. By setting clear boundaries, stepping away from the noise, and focusing on what aligns with our values, we can reclaim our energy and take back control of our lives.
Sometimes, the sky speaks louder than words. This sunset over the water reminds me to pause, breathe, and appreciate the fleeting beauty of a single moment, what really matters in life.
The Dance of Light and Stillness – 2023 : Beaufort, North Carolina.
Life feels like a constant tug-of-war for our attention. Everywhere we turn, something demands to be seen, heard, or felt—politics, sports, marketing campaigns, the latest trends, gossip, or whatever is the big topic of the hour. We’re bombarded with messages about what we should care about, told what matters, and pushed toward priorities that often aren’t even our own. Over time, I’ve come to see these as distractions—designed not to enlighten us but to keep us occupied, like a herd of animals chasing after the next feeding.
These distractions are not harmless. They are meticulously crafted to keep us in a perpetual state of stress, anxiety, and inadequacy. The goal is to overload us with fear—fear of missing out, fear of not being enough, fear of losing control. In this fear-driven state, we become easier to manipulate, more likely to engage with the systems and platforms that profit from our distress.
Take social media, for example. Many of us are hooked, endlessly scrolling and even arguing with strangers to prove we’re “right.” But have you ever stopped to consider whether those strangers are even real? Some may be bots or fabricated personas whose sole purpose is to keep you engaged. And by “engaged,” I mean draining your energy—siphoning it away from what truly matters to you. This isn’t connection; it’s depletion.
Our attention has become the most valuable currency in the modern world. Companies and algorithms compete ruthlessly to capture it, not because they care about our well-being, but because attention fuels profit, power, and control. This battle unfolds in every corner of our lives. Notifications ding. Headlines scream urgency. Infinite feeds keep us hooked, chasing the next hit of stimulation like an addiction.
But the cost of this constant distraction is enormous. When our attention is hijacked, our energy and time go with it. We drift away from our own goals, values, and relationships, losing touch with what truly matters. Instead of leading intentional lives, we’re lured into a reactive state, responding to what others demand of us rather than creating space to define our own priorities.
Yet, here’s the empowering truth: our attention is ours to reclaim. It starts with awareness—recognizing when and how our focus is being stolen. From there, it’s about setting boundaries, not just with technology but with anything that pulls us away from our purpose. Turning off notifications, stepping away from the noise, and prioritizing moments of stillness aren’t just self-care practices; they’re acts of rebellion. They’re declarations of sovereignty over our own minds.
Reclaiming attention isn’t just about avoiding distractions—it’s about choosing intentionally. When we focus on what nurtures us—our passions, relationships, creativity, or personal growth—we align our energy with the life we want to live. Our attention shapes our reality, and where it goes, our life follows.
The battle for our attention is real, but we are not powerless. Each time we step back, breathe, and question what we’re giving our focus to, we reclaim a piece of ourselves. Our attention is sacred—a tool to craft a life of meaning and purpose, not a resource to be exploited. Winning this battle isn’t about fighting harder; it’s about choosing wiser. When we own our attention, we own our power.
For me, this realization has been transformative. I’ve made the conscious choice to disengage from the constant noise. I no longer follow the news or immerse myself in politics, choosing instead to let that negative energy flow past me. While I do engage online occasionally, it’s with intention—often by sharing a peaceful photograph I’ve received. It’s my small act of rebellion, offering a moment of calm in a chaotic world. Whether others embrace it or not is up to them.
This choice reminds me of being at a party and choosing not to drink. As you stand there, clear-headed, you watch everyone else stumble through intoxicated games, wondering why you won’t join in. They might think you’re strange for abstaining, but you see something they don’t—the freedom that comes with clarity.
In a world desperate for our attention, the greatest gift we can offer ourselves and others is peace. We can’t force anyone to embrace it, but we can offer it—through our actions, our choices, and our presence. The rest is up to them.
I hope you enjoy the photograph The Dance of Light and Stillness.
The CE5 Experience: Discovering the Empowering Truth That Nobody Is Coming to Save Us
In the stillness of a CE5 event, as lasers traced satellites across the vast Arizona night sky, a profound realization struck: nobody is coming to save us—not aliens, not divine figures, not anyone. This isn’t despair; it’s empowerment. It’s a call to trust ourselves, to take responsibility, and to step into our own strength.
Orion Nebula
Orion Nebula – 2021 : Durham, North Carolina.
Lost in the glow of the Orion Nebula : A reminder of how small we are in the vast expanse of the cosmos. What wonders do you see in the stars tonight?
It was a CE5 event—a gathering centered around initiating contact with extraterrestrial beings through meditation and intention. CE5, short for “Close Encounters of the Fifth Kind,” flips the script on traditional UFO experiences, where the contact is human-initiated rather than passive. I found myself in Sedona, Arizona, in the spring of 2024, sitting among a group of people gazing at the vast night sky.
“There’s one!” someone shouted, pointing a laser at a moving object above. Others quickly joined in, their lasers trailing the movement across the stars. At first, I felt a spark of excitement—what if? But as an amateur astronomer, I couldn’t ignore the details. Its brightness, movement, speed, and trajectory were too familiar. It was unmistakably a satellite.
I’ve spent a good amount of time observing the night sky, photographing it, and learning its rhythms. Living on the coast of eastern North Carolina has its perks—clear, dark skies, free from the haze of city lights. I’ve learned to identify the usual suspects: airplanes with their flashing lights, satellites moving steadily and predictably (you can confirm them with an app), and meteors, quick streaks of light with an occasional flash as they burn up. Every now and then, though, I’ve seen objects that don’t fit into any of those categories. Those are the ones that truly intrigue me.
Do I believe there’s life beyond Earth? Absolutely. The universe is far too vast for us to be alone. Are they visiting us? It’s a fascinating idea, one I enjoy pondering. But it always circles back to a question: why would they?
“There’s another one!” someone shouted again, laser following yet another satellite. I didn’t have the heart to break it to them—they were so caught up in the moment. But then something unexpected happened. A few voices began crying out, “Come save us! Save us!” Others joined in, their pleas rising into the cold, indifferent night. It felt surreal, like a scene straight out of Horton Hears a Who: “We are here! We are here!”
As I sat there on the chilly ground, listening to these heartfelt cries into the vast silence of the cosmos, I felt a wave of deep sadness. It wasn’t just sadness—it was a grief, a mourning, like losing something profoundly precious. I began to cry, sitting there, a man in his late 40s, weeping under the stars. The question gnawed at me: why am I feeling this way?
It wasn’t the first time I’d felt this. It took me back to moments in church as a kid, listening to prayers of desperation, pleas for salvation. It struck the same chord. After some time, I whispered, “Thank you,” got up, and walked away. On my way out, I ran into a friend. We chatted for a bit, and as he glanced over at the group, he laughed and said, “Do they realize we’re the aliens?”
His words stuck with me. As I mulled it over in the following months, the realization became crystal clear: nobody is coming to save us.
Not Jesus. Not Buddha. Not aliens. Nobody is coming. We’re here, on this spinning rock, and it’s up to us to figure it out. Think about it: if an advanced civilization capable of traversing galaxies exists, they would also likely possess deep spiritual insight. They’d know better than to intervene. Landing here would turn them into instant gods, and humanity would become dependent on them, endlessly asking for answers, miracles, and solutions—just like so many prayers to God or the universe. They’d see the wisdom in letting us stumble, fall, and learn to stand on our own.
The phrase “nobody is coming to save us” might sound cold, even harsh. It can feel isolating at first. But the more I’ve sat with it, especially through my shamanic practices, the more I’ve come to see it as empowering. Where there’s shadow, there’s light. And in that light, shadow. The realization that we’re not waiting for a savior isn’t despair—it’s an invitation.
It’s a call to action.
To trust ourselves. To take responsibility for our own lives and our collective future. To stop outsourcing our power and start creating the world we want to live in.
It begins with something radical: trusting ourselves. Trusting that we have what it takes to navigate the challenges we face, to grow, to heal, and to thrive. When we embrace that truth, we stop waiting for rescue and start stepping into our own strength.
Nobody is coming to save us. And maybe, just maybe, that’s the greatest gift we could ask for.
